Slow Sex

For many people the concept of slow sex can be difficult to comprehend.

We tend to be raised on imagery and schoolyard talk that describes sex as quick and orgasmic, and we mostly experience sex in the same way. We’re taught that more rapid and vigorous stimulation is better, and hot sex is seriously fast and furious sex.

But our nervous system, where we derive our pleasure, is only sometimes able to respond orgasmically to rapid information. What happens when we slow down and take our time is truly revelatory for our senses that are used to hard stimulation. Soft and slow is another experience altogether, and is one that creates entirely different feelings of eroticism.

When we slow down or sensory receptors are able to sensitively respond to stimulus. Instead of an intense and full sensation that can overwhelm, with slowing everything down there is a feeling of nuance, much more detail, a broader range of responsiveness and a spaciousness that allows each touch to carry much more information. This significantly changes the way we experience pleasure and it can bring entirely new levels of arousal and orgasm.

Explore Sentient Sexuality in the erotic adventuring area of the playground to learn more and to consider if this may be the type of experience you are seeking...