Common Questions

Is there any specific preparation?

Yes, there is.

  • Book in advance and ensure punctuality. 

  • Have integrity, be respectful and follow etiquette.

  • Be clear and polite in communication, whether through text, email, or calls.

  • Understand the advertised rates (see the ‘Services’ tab) and the terms of service and cancellation policy (see the ‘Bookings’ tab).

  • Discuss preferences and limitations upfront to avoid misunderstandings.

  • We will both attend to personal hygiene to ensure our time together is valued.

How can I clarify my wants/needs/desires?

Try this technique to create clarity.

  • Sit somewhere quiet and private.

  • Close your eyes, be calm, breathe deeply, and relax.

  • Turn inward and ask yourself what it is you want that would be pleasurable for you.

  • Wait as long as you need to for an emphatic ‘yes!’ answer to arise and trust and value what you have found.

  • Identify what would be satisfying for you in meeting the want/need/desire you feel.

  • Name your limits and no-go zones around how you can reach this satisfaction.

  • Sit for five minutes with the information you have uncovered.

  • Clearly communicate your needs/wants/limits and no-go zones when you chat with me.

  • You have just helped to create a container for your pleasure to be fully realised.

Can we ensure non-attachment?

Yes, we can - by respecting my position in life and your own maturity and self-care. As this site communicates, I willingly share my being within boundaries. Even in this bordered framework, emotions may arise from within intimacy. Should this happen, they are the individuals’ to own.

Ensure you fully understand the way I work:

  • Be fully aware that our time together is professional and transactional.

  • We respect privacy by not asking for personal information beyond what is provided.

  • There is no relationship beyond the agreed services. Read a well-articulated escort perspective on this here. And to reiterate a very valid point from this article: chemistry does not equal compatibility.

  • Contact occurring outside bookings will have an escorting and not a personal focus.   

  • I ground myself within an extended existence that transcends our material world and ego-based attachment, meaning any feelings that may develop towards me will be unrequited as they are unlikely to merge with my life perspective. 

If you find yourself succumbing to attachment, we have some options:

  • Human relations can be messy, and we can approach this with grace.

  • I’m compassionate and can work with you if you own it and want to change it.

  • I put in place a time-out to allow absence and space to remedy the situation.

  • I permanently cease our relationship and recommend you to another provider.

Some very good psychological and complementary services are available to assist you in working through these types of situations.   

These points are absolutely non-negotiable.

Do you work with diverse medical needs?

Yes, to the extent my knowledge and skill allows. Please contact me to discuss what you would like.

Caregivers are welcome to be present - often necessarily so - during an encounter.

Can I give gifts?

Absolutely! If you choose to purchase gifts as a token of appreciation, here are some ideas.

  • Clothing and Shoes. (Sizing: Shirts - Italian 39, Jackets/Trousers - Italian 50R, Shoes - Euro 46 2E, Underwear - medium)

Favoured brands are: Canali, Zegna, Brioni, Etro, Eton, Brunello Cucinelli, Jacob Cohen, Pal Zileri. Fratelli Rossetti, Berluti, Bally, Barbanera, Lovehoney, Cocksox.

  • Scent

Amouage Jubilation.

  • You can never go wrong with a …

Simple book or plant voucher.