Common Questions
Will I be cared for and safe?
Very much so.
Our time together takes place with a created ‘container’ where we agree on the dynamics of our interaction, which makes us free to enjoy each other in safety, knowing where things are going and not going. This increases the sexiness of the experience and ensures consent in everything that occurs between us.
I practice non-negotiable safe sex and undertake regular sexual health checks.
Each interaction is designed to be held within a boundary of safety and respect.
You will have your ‘no way’s’ regarding touch and intimacy – we all have these. If you are unsure about anything then it is one of your ‘no-ways’, unless you intentionally wish to explore. An emphatic Yes! is the best and is a powerful turn-on.
Confidentiality is fundamental, so no photos or video are permitted.
Non-disclosure agreements are used when you want an added layer of confidentiality.
Is there any specific preparation?
Yes, there is.
Book in advance and ensure punctuality.
Be clear and polite in communication, whether through text, email, or calls.
If you have a latex allergy let me know, there are good alternatives available.
We both attend to personal hygiene to ensure our time together is valued.
Understand the advertised rates as well as the terms of service and cancellation policy (see the ‘Bookings and Pricing’ tab).
How can I clarify my wants/needs/desires?
Sit somewhere quiet and private and close your eyes, be calm, breathe deeply, and relax.
Turn inward and ask yourself what it is you want that would be pleasurable for you.
Wait as long as you need to for an emphatic ‘yes!’ answer to arise and trust and value what you have found.
Identify what would be satisfying for you in meeting the want/need/desire you feel.
Name your limits and no-go zones around how you can reach this satisfaction.
Sit for five minutes with the information you have uncovered.
Clearly communicate your needs/wants/limits and no-go zones when you chat with me.
Can we ensure non-attachment?
Yes, absolutely.
Our time together is professional and transactional. All contact will have an escorting focus only - there is absolutely no relationship beyond the agreed services. Read a well-articulated perspective on this here.
If you succumb to attachment we have some non-negotiable options:
Human relations can be messy, and we will approach this with grace.
I’m compassionate and will work with you if you own it and want to change it.
I put in place a time-out to allow absence and space to remedy the situation.
I permanently cease our relationship and recommend you to another provider.
Do you work with diverse medical and ableness needs?
Yes, to the extent my knowledge and skill allows. Please contact me to discuss what you would like.
Caregivers are welcome to be present - often necessarily so - during an encounter.
Can I give gifts?
Absolutely! If you choose to purchase gifts as a token of appreciation, here are some ideas.
Clothing and shoes. (Sizing: Shirts - Italian 39, Jackets/Trousers - Italian 50R, Shoes - Euro 46 2E, Underwear - medium). Favoured brands are: Canali, Zegna, Brioni, Etro, Eton, Brunello Cucinelli, Jacob Cohen, Pal Zileri. Fratelli Rossetti, Berluti, Bally, Barbanera, Lovehoney, Cocksox.
Scent such as Amouage Jubilation.
You can never go wrong with a book or plant voucher.