Desire

This is such a rich area. I love desire, it’s such a brilliant compass reflecting our inner worlds. Particularly erotic desire - this is such fun to play with and to share, particularly with oneself or with another, or even with others.

Desire is separated into two separate elements - spontaneous and responsive. The first of these is an urge that seems to come from nowhere - it’s often instantaneous and very present. This type of desire is often experienced in the limerence stage of a connection - when two - or more - people are in the early and lustful stages of that connection. The second type of desire arises in response to stimuli, which may be external or internal or both. This is not the full-on instant urge but rather the realisation that some type of connection could be a really, really good thing and I’m getting into the idea of this more and more and more… This desire tends to occur in longer term connections, although not exclusively.

Both of these types of desire are absolutely normal and ‘desirable’. Desire is alive on a spectrum and we can move between one end of this spectrum or the other, or we may live at one end more than the other. Whatever the case, it’s all desire and it’s all fun.

For me desire is a felt sense of a pull towards something. It tends to originate in my solar plexus and more towards the idea or object of desire from there. A neat thing to do is to play with desire by circulating it through the body with breath and intention, to the point where your body can just hum with the wanting.

Every service I offer integrates with desire, and it’s your choice what you might want at any point in time. Exploration and expansion is the aim.