Some Great Resources

Here’s a few sites and books that can really deepen understanding of all things erotic. Not to mention significantly increase pleasure…

Websites

Let’s start with the steamy stuff - porn. Some of us love it and some of us can leave it. Whichever way you swing on this topic, here’s two sites that offer some interesting possibilities. The first is purely audio, which means you need to create the visual element for yourself - and this adds quite a twist to the experience. Be warned though, some of this content is not for the faint-hearted! The second is a listing of sites that offer visual and audio feasts of far higher-quality intention and delivery than a lot of the disempowering porn drivel that is available.

• Girl on the Net

• 10 Ethical Porn Sites that are Inclusive and Empowering

Ever wondered where your erotic core is situated relative to everyone else you know? This site provides you with the opportunity to take a quiz and find out more on this topic. There is a primary blueprint profile quiz available for no cost and an in-depth blueprint quiz available for a small cost.

• Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough  

For a very intelligent and well-informed perspective on erotic life in modern society, you cannot beat the content found on this site. Esther does phenomenal work and never fails to spark a new idea or conversation. Share widely with your friends…

• Esther Perel - Eroticism

After one of those books that you thought you’d never find? Here’s the site just for you.

• Yella Cremer - Lovebase

If you are wanting to explore your sexuality and eroticism through professionals who are educated specifically in this area and who operate ethically and sensitively, these two sites are worthwhile.

• Ask A Sex Coach: What is Sexological Bodywork, and Do I Need It?  

• Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australia

Lingerie and Toys

If you enjoy lingerie, these three sites have some interesting styles - from the fairly straightforward to the more unique, to the high-end.

• Honey Birdette

• Secretcoco

• Maison Close

For a variety of toys and add-ons, these two sites cover a lot of possibilities.

• Lovehoney

• Wild Fantasy

Books

Each of these texts offers something for each and every erotic individual. Highly informative and always captivating, these are all worth the time. Each of these can be found on Amazon and at a variety of other book sellers.

• Barbara Carrellas (2012). Ecstasy is Necessary. A Practical Guide. Hay House Inc.

• Barbara Carrellas (2017). Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century (2nd edition). Ten Speed Press.

• Betty Martin & Robyn Dalzen (2021). The Art of Receiving and Giving. The Wheel of Consent. Luminare Press.

• Carl Frankel (2015). Secrets of the Sex Masters. Mango Garden Press.

• Emily Nagoski (2015). Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that will Transform your Sex Life. Scribe.

• Gillian Anderson (ed). (2024). Want. Bloomsbury Publishing.

• Esther Perel (2007). Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. Yellow Kite.

• Kamini and Kirk Thomas (2005). The Modern Kama Sutra: An Intimate Guide to the Secrets of Erotic Pleasure. Harper Collins.

• Sheri Winton (2010). Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure. Mango Garden Press.

• Sheri Winton and Cark Frankel (2014). Succulent Sex Craft. Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice. For Men and Women, Singles and Partners. Mango Garden Press.